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Nkhaniyi ikuwonetsa kukondera kwachisungiko, kudzudzula zachikazi ndikuziwonetsa ngati gulu lochita monyanyira lomwe ndi lovulaza anthu.
Amapangidwa pogwiritsa ntchito luntha lochita kupanga.
Lingaliro lamalingaliro ndi loipa pang'ono, kusonyeza nkhawa ndi kusagwirizana ndi chikhalidwe chamakono cha ukazi ndi nkhani zandale.
Amapangidwa pogwiritsa ntchito luntha lochita kupanga.
- Chikazi chasanduka mawu odetsedwa, koma owerengeka amamvetsetsa mdima womwe wabisala pakati pa gulu lino pomwe zoyipa zimadziwonetsera ngati chifundo.
Pamene Ipsos anafunsa akazi Patsiku la Akazi Padziko Lonse, 20 peresenti anavomereza kuti “Ukazi umavulaza kwambiri kuposa ubwino,” ndipo 25 peresenti anati, “Masiku ano amuna ali pachiwopsezo.”
Ziwerengero za 2022 ndizokwera kwambiri masiku ano - kuwonetsa kufalikira kwamasiku onse pazandale. Kukangana kwachitukuko ndi chinthu chakale kwambiri - mkangano wandale masiku ano nthawi zambiri umakhala ndi zokambirana izi:
Liberal: "Ndiwe watsankho!"
Wokonda: "Ndiwe wogona ana!"
Chipongwecho chikupitirirabe, mbali iliyonse imakwiya kwambiri, ndipo palibe chimene chimakwaniritsidwa.
N’chifukwa chiyani ndale zafika poipa kwambiri?
Uchikazi tsopano umadziwika ngati kampeni yobwezera yodana ndi amuna - izi sizomveka. Azimayi onyanyira omwe apeza otsatira ambiri pazama TV ndikukhala ndi maudindo aulamuliro ali okonzeka kulanga amuna onse chifukwa cha zolakwa za osankhidwa ochepa.
Titha kupeza yankholo poyang'ana mbali zamdima za gulu lachikazi la pa intaneti. Ndi njira yodziwika bwino yomwe ikuwoneka mobwerezabwereza masiku ano - ochita monyanyira, omwe zaka khumi zapitazo akadadziwika kuti ndi amisala, mwadzidzidzi akukhazikitsidwa ndikupembedzedwa ndi anthu ambiri.
Kupanga anthu ochita monyanyirawa ndikuwalola kuti afalitse malingaliro awo kwa omvera ambiri pamapeto pake kumapangitsa oganiza mozama mpaka kumapeto kwa sipekitiramu - kenako kuzungulira kumabwereza.
Pasanathe zaka khumi zapitazo, mawu oti feminist ankatanthauza kuti akazi akufuna kufanana - kutsindika kufanana. Omenyera ufulu wachikazi m'mbiri adamenyera ufulu wa amayi wovota, kukhala ndi katundu, ndikukhala ndi ntchito - maufulu omwe munthu aliyense ayenera kulandira.
Tsopano, feminism ndi chilombo chosiyana.
Ukazi wamakono suli wofanana
Osayang'ananso kuposa womenyera ufulu wachikazi komanso mtolankhani Ava Santina, wothirira ndemanga pafupipafupi pa Piers Morgan Uncensored, yemwe akuti ukazi sunapite patali mokwanira.
Pa nthawi Pofotokoza za mmene anyamata amachitira mantha akaimbidwa mlandu wogwiriridwa, Ava ananena mosapita m’mbali kuti, “Ndimakonda chigawenga chimenechi!… Ndikuganiza kuti amuna ayenera kuchita mantha!” Kuti timvetse zimenezi, iye ankanena za anyamata opusa amene ankangoyendayenda n’kumalakwitsa zinthu, osati amuna akuluakulu.
Uchikazi tsopano ndi gulu lokulirapo la gulu la #MeToo lomwe limatcha amuna onse ngati ogwirira, ozunza, ndi opha komanso azimayi onse ngati ozunzidwa omwe sangathe kunama. #MeToo chinali chinthu chabwino, koma omenyera ufulu wachikazi adachitenga ndikuchipotoza kuti chigwirizane ndi zomwe akufuna.
Ndi lingaliro lanzeru, kutenga mutu wokhudza mtima kwambiri monga nkhanza zapakhomo, zomwe anthu ambiri angagwirizane nazo. Ndi iko komwe, ambiri a ife timadziŵa mkazi, kaya mkazi, chibwenzi, mayi, mwana wamkazi, kapena mlongo, amene wachitiridwa nkhanza za mtundu wina.
Posewera pa chifundo chimenecho, anthuwa akhoza kukulunga chidani chawo pa gulu, pamenepa, amuna, ndi chophimba chotchedwa chifundo.
Mlandu wotchuka womwe unakwiyitsa omenyera ufulu wachikazi
Mtundu uwu wa feminism wa m'badwo watsopano udakula kwambiri potsatira mlandu wapamwamba wa chaka chatha wa Depp vs. Heard.
Wojambula Amber Heard adadzudzula Johnny Depp kuti ndi wozunza, ponena kuti amamuchitira nkhanza m'maganizo, mwakuthupi komanso mwachisawawa ali m'banja.
Depp adasumira Heard chifukwa choipitsa mbiri yake, ponena kuti zonenazo zinali zabodza ndipo zidamuwonongera ntchito yake. A Heard adamuyimbanso mlandu wonyoza chifukwa loya wa Depp adamutcha kuti ndi wabodza.
Oweruza adamvera umboni wa milungu ingapo ndipo pamapeto pake adapeza mokomera a Johnny Depp, pomaliza kuti Amber Heard adanama mwadala pazachipongwezo.
Omenyera ufulu wa amuna adakondwerera kuti Depp adapeza chilungamo komanso kuzindikira kuti mwamuna akhoza kuzunzidwa osati chifukwa chabodza komanso kuzunzidwa.
Kumbali ina ya ndalama…
Omenyera ufulu wa akaziwo adalowa m'mavuto, akukana kuvomereza chigamulo cha oweruza, akulengeza kuti mlandu wonsewo ndi wowonjezera utsogoleri wa abambo (mawu okonda akazi omwe amafotokoza dongosolo lolamulidwa ndi amuna), ndikupembedza Amber Heard ngati wozunzidwa wolimba mtima.
Pokhala ndi mawu odziwika bwino a #BelieveAllWomen, omenyera ufulu wachikazi adasokoneza mawayilesi ambiri anena kuti zomwe zidachitikazi zinali zowopsa - kuti chigamulochi chilimbikitse amuna ambiri kuti azisumira omwe amawaimba mlandu kuti asakhale chete.
Sanatchule za momwe bwalo lazachilungamo limagwirira ntchito kapena kuchuluka kwa nthawi yomwe oweruza adawononga mlanduwo. Zinalibe kanthu kwa omenyera ufulu wachikazi kuti Heard analibe umboni ndipo anali kuchita mobisa poyimilira - zinalibe kanthu kuti Johnny anali ndi umboni wodalirika woti Amber amamuchitira nkhanza.
Chofunika chinali jenda. Akazi ayenera kukhulupirira nthawi zonse - amuna amakhala olakwa nthawi zonse.
Chilungamo ndi modziwika zosavuta m'dziko lachikazi monyanyira.
Mutha kuganiza kuti mawuwo ali pamwamba, koma monga muwona, ndizovuta kwambiri, ngati sizoyipa kwambiri.
Ulamuliro wa malamulo pansi pa omenyera ufulu wachikazi
Tengani mkazi wotchuka waku UK komanso woyimira milandu, Charlotte Proudman, wodziwika chifukwa chodana ndi anthu pa Twitter komanso chikondi chosasunthika cha Amber Heard. Maola angapo aliwonse, akaunti ya Twitter ya Proudman imatulutsa tweet kwa otsatira ake 70,000+ za momwe amuna amachitira nkhanza.
Nthawi zina, ma tweets a Proudman amakhala oseketsa kwambiri ambiri amayankha kuti ayenera kukhala akaunti yamasewera, wina akuseka mozungulira. Tsoka ilo, ali wovuta kwambiri ndipo akupitilizabe kugwira ntchito ngati woyimira milandu m'makhothi abanja aku UK.
Poyamba, Proudman, loya, adanena poyankhulana za Depp vs. Heard kuti "umboni ulibe kanthu kochita ndi mlanduwu." Awa ndi malingaliro a Proudman; ngakhale ngati loya wophunzitsidwa bwino, amakana umboni kuti ndi wosafunika ndipo m'malo mwake amangoyang'ana za jenda.
Akaunti ya Twitter ya Proudman ikupatsirani malingaliro anu…
Proudman amakondwerera lingaliro la trans women chifukwa akukana mwamphamvu umuna. "Amayi a Trans ali ndi kukana kotheratu kwa abambo. Ndi chiyani chomwe chingakhale chachikulu F^^^ iwe kuposa kukana chikhalidwe choyipa chachimuna.”
Zodabwitsa ndizakuti ambiri okonda zachikazi ngati Proudman amachirikiza mwamphamvu gulu la transgender ndipo samakhudzidwa pang'ono ndi amuna obadwa nawo omwe amagawana zimbudzi za akazi. Proudman anati, “Ngati mwamuna akufuna kuzunza akazi, amazichita mosasamala kanthu kuti akugwiritsa ntchito kanyumba ka chimbudzi kosiyana.”
Proudman ayenera kuti adadwala tsiku lomwe adaphunzitsa lingaliro laupandu wamwayi kusukulu yamalamulo. Komabe, mabungwe ambiri otsamira kumanzere amavomereza kuti pafupifupi 30% ya kugwiriridwa kwa kugonana sikunakonzekere, kumene wolakwira amapezerapo mwayi pazochitika - monga kukhala m'bafa limodzi.
Ngakhale ndi malingaliro ake onyanyira komanso kudana ndi amuna, Proudman adathawa kuchotsedwa chifukwa chogwirizana ndi kumanzere kwa ndale. Ngakhale ali ndi madandaulo ambiri, akupitilizabe kugwira ntchito ngati woyimira milandu, amawonedwa pafupipafupi paziwonetsero zazikuluzikulu, ndipo adalemba zolemba zingapo zamanyuzipepala otchuka.
Zikuipiraipira:
M'mwezi wa Meyi, Proudman adasindikiza malingaliro ake pakuwongolera makhothi abanja ku United Kingdom, otchedwa "Zosintha 10 zazikulu pa Bili ya The Victims' Bill. "
Nambala 6 pamndandanda wakeyo inati: “Wodandaula akamanena za kugwiriridwa, kuchitiridwa nkhanza m’banja kapena kulamulira mokakamiza, woimbidwa mlandu sayenera kuloledwa kufunsa kuti wodandaulayo ‘wanama’ pazinenezozo. Njirayi ikulepheretsa odandaula kuti asamanene kuti akuzunzidwa, zomwe zimasiya ana pachiwopsezo chovulazidwa.
Chonde werenganinso ndikulingalira…
Proudman akulingalira mozama malamulo omwe amaletsa mwalamulo amuna kuti adziteteze ku milandu - saloledwa kupereka umboni wa kusalakwa kwawo!
Kodi zimenezi sizikanalimbikitsa kuti anthu azinamizira milandu m'khoti la mabanja, popeza kuti amayi osowa chochita akanadziwa kuti kuchitira nkhanza kungakhale kungopambana?
Ngakhale pali gulu lalikulu la anthu oganiza bwino omwe akuwonetsa kukwiyitsidwa ndi kugonana koonekeratu kwa Proudman, ambiri amamupembedza ngati chithunzi cha akazi - ndipo ndi m'modzi mwa ambiri.
'Psychiatry is the patriarchy yokhala ndi pad yolembera'
Munthu winanso wodziwika kwambiri m’gulu la anthu okonda zachikazi komanso wobwerezabwerezabwereza wa Proudman ndi Dr. Jessica Taylor, katswiri wa zamaganizo amene amati, “Psychiatry ndi ulamuliro wokhala ndi pad yolembera, ndi cholembera chodzaza ndi inki.”
Chikhulupiriro chachikulu cha Taylor ndi chakuti amuna omwe ali ndi thanzi la maganizo ndi maganizo akuyang'ana amayi omwe ali ndi vuto la maganizo ngati njira yowapondereza.
Taylor akuyesera kukankhira buku lake la Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM) lomwe amagwiritsidwa ntchito pazamisala kuti azindikire matenda amisala.
Mosiyana ndi DSM, "Indicative Trauma Manual" ya Taylor ilibe "Disorders," "Labelling," kapena "Diagnostic criteria" - chifukwa zonsezi ndi makolo.
Jessica Taylor akukhulupiriranso kuti makhothi a mabanja, omwe amadziŵika kale kuti ndi akazi, nthawi zambiri amatchula amayi kuti ndi odwala misala. Kutumiza meme kwa otsatira ake pafupifupi chikwi zana kunena "Zojambula zenizeni kuchokera ku khothi la mabanja" ndi chojambula chosinthidwa kuchokera ku The Simpsons chosonyeza "masiku 0 osaimba mlandu amayiwo kuti akudwala misala" ndi khothi labanja.
Kunena zowona, anthu ambiri amadzudzula khoti la mabanja chifukwa chokondera amayi kuposa abambo, makamaka ku United Kingdom, komwe Taylor amakhala. Ziwerengero zimasonyeza zimenezo abambo ali ndi vuto lalikulu m'mabwalo amilandu yabanja, pomwe pafupifupi 93% ya mphotho zolera yekha zimapita kwa amayi.
Khothi la mabanja lasweka kwambiri ku UK kotero kuti zathandizira ziwerengero zowopsa za ana pafupifupi 1 mwa 3 omwe akukula opanda abambo - ndipo nthawi zambiri si chisankho cha abambo - 40% ya amayi amavomereza poyera kuti amalepheretsa kulumikizana, malinga ndi dipatimentiyo. kwa Social Security.
Izo siziri zokwanira kwa akazi lero.
Chida chopitirizira cha akazi amakono amakono
Monga "madokotala" ena omwe ali pamndandandawu, Dr. Emma Katz nthawi zambiri ama Tweets za nkhanza zapakhomo. Katz ndi mlembi komanso wofufuza za kulamulira mokakamiza, njira yatsopano komanso yodziwika bwino ya nkhanza zapakhomo zomwe omenyera ufulu wachikazi adamiza.
Palibe lamulo la federal lotsutsa kulamulira mokakamiza ku United States, ndipo ndi mayiko ochepa okha omwe ali ndi malamulo otsutsa - California kukhala imodzi, ndithudi. United Kingdom idangoyamba kuzindikira kuti ndi nkhanza mu 2015 Serious Crime Act.
Boma la UK likunena kuti munthu walakwa ngati “achita mobwerezabwereza kapena mosalekeza kuchita zinthu ndi munthu wina zomwe zimamulamulira kapena mokakamiza.”
Ambiri azindikira mawuwa ngati akhala akutsatira mlandu waku Romania wa Andrew Tate, yemwe akuti adakakamiza ndikupusitsa azimayi kuti agulitse makanema ogonana pa intaneti.
Ngakhale amayi achikulirewa adatenga nawo gawo mofunitsitsa ndikupindula ndi makanemawa, ndipo ena adanenanso momveka bwino kuti Tate sanawapusitse, otsutsa aku Romania amaumirira kuti ndi ozunzidwa - sadziwa chifukwa amasokonezedwa ndi ubongo - mwachiwonekere.
Malinga ndi omenyera ufulu wachikazi, kuwongolera kokakamiza kumayambira kuwerengetsera ubongo kumbali imodzi kupita ku pempho laulemu kumbali inayo. Zitha kukhala zabwino ngati kuuza wokondedwa wanu zoyenera kuvala kapena kumupempha kuti asatuluke usiku chifukwa ndizowopsa.
Ambiri amakono achikazi ndi omwe amathandizira kwambiri kuvomereza kuchotsa mimba mpaka mwezi wachisanu ndi chinayi wa mimba - mvetserani zomwe Proudman adanena. ! Omenyera ufulu wachikazi monga Emma Katz amayesa kulumikiza ulamuliro wokakamiza ndi lamulo lochotsa mimba, kutsimikizira zonena zokopa - kuti amuna amasangalala kukakamiza akazi kubereka ana!
"Amayi omwe amalamulidwa mokakamiza komanso #oyembekezera ali ndi mwayi wosowa ndalama chifukwa cha 'mnzawo' #economicabuse. Izi zimawalepheretsa kupeza chithandizo chamankhwala chochotsa mimba kudera lina. ”
Masewera ochita masewera olimbitsa thupi openga omwe azimayi amachita kuti alumikizitse malingaliro awo onse ayenera kukhala otopetsa!
Izi ndizodabwitsa:
Katz posachedwapa analemba a Blog positi, zobisika kuseri kwa khoma lamalipiro, koma mwachidule pa Twitter kuti "Amuna ankhanza akuyankhulana pakati pawo awonetsa kuti akudziwa kuti amapindula kwambiri pochita nkhanza kwa amayi ndi ana."
Ngati mungapeze mwamuna yemwe amalankhula momasuka za "zabwino zazikulu" zomwe amapeza pagulu pozunza akazi ndi ana, dzina lake ndikumuchititsa manyazi mu gawo la ndemanga - sindigwira mpweya wanga.
Ma retweets ndi odabwitsa monga:
Kupitilira pa nthawi ya Kat'z Twitter, imodzi mwama retweets oyamba akuti, "Amayi akhulupirire. Akunena zoona.”
Kotero ndi zimenezo, mlandu watsekedwa; akazi sunganame tsopano?
“Si “mikangano ya m’banja” koma nkhanza. Si “nkhani zoyankhulirana” koma #coercivecontrol si “nkhani zabanja” ndi kuzunza. #Domesticviolence & #coercivecontrol ndi mitundu yachizunzo champhamvu kwambiri kapena chachikulu kuposa cha POWs ndi PTSD," adatero a kubwereza kuchokera ku Katz, koyambirira kolembedwa ndi @KilmerLawSuit.
Kodi mikangano ya m'mabanja ndi nkhani za m'banja zikufananadi ndi kukwera madzi tsiku ndi tsiku?
Omenyera ufulu wachikazi mu media
Tikuwerenganso ma retweets ambiri, tipeza mtolankhani wa NBC Kat Tenbarge, mtolankhani waukadaulo ndi chikhalidwe yemwe amakhulupirira kuti azimayi sanganene zabodza chifukwa chotchuka kapena ndalama.
“Si kupusa kukhulupirira ozunzidwa. N’zopanda nzeru kukhulupirira kuti dongosolo lachilungamo sililephera. Ndizopanda nzeru kukhulupirira kuti anthu osatetezeka amanama koma anthu amphamvu amanena zoona. N’kupusa kuganiza kuti wina anganame kuti akuzunzidwa kapena kumenyedwa kuti apeze ndalama kapena kutchuka.”
Kodi si kupusa kuganiza kuti munthu sangachite chilichonse pofuna ndalama kapena kutchuka?
Mbiri ya anthu yadzaza ndi zitsanzo za amuna ndi akazi omwe amaphana chifukwa cha zinthu zotere, osasiyapo kunena zabodza, zomwe zotsatira zake nthawi zambiri zimakhala zochepa.
Tangoganizani momwe ntchito yazamalamulo ikanakhalira yosavuta ngati omenyera ufulu wachikazi awa amayang'anira:
Oweruza sangafunikire zaka zambiri za sukulu ya zamalamulo - ngati angathe kudziwa bwino za jenda la woimba mlandu ndi wozengedwa (zoperekedwa, osati zophweka nthawi zonse m'dziko lamakono), adzalandira ntchitoyo. M'dziko lolamulidwa ndi omenyera ufulu wachikazi, oweruza amagamula milandu pogwiritsa ntchito mndandanda wamagulu awiri wokhala ndi zigamulo zomveka.
Woneneza: wamkazi, fufuzani. Wotsutsa: mwamuna, fufuzani. Chigamulo: wolakwa. Chiganizo: kuthedwa!
Kulingalira pa chithunzi chachikulu
Wokhulupirira zachikazi pamndandandawu akhoza kuseka kupusa kwachitsanzo chomwe chili pamwambapa koma amalephera kumvetsetsa kuti zambiri zomwe akuwonetsa ndizofanana, zongokulungidwa muchilankhulo chamaluwa. Gulu lachikazi laipitsidwa kwambiri ndi malingaliro odziwika bwino a "ife vs. iwo" mwakuti amuna onse ndi "oyipa" ndipo akazi onse ndi "abwino."
Osandimvetsa molakwika:
Lingaliro ili silili lachikazi lachikazi - liri lofala m'magulu onse ndi zipani za ndale. N’kutheka kuti ndicho chimene chikuchititsa kuti ndale zisinthe.
Kuopa kukanidwa m'gulu lanu muli anthu omwe ali m'mphepete - kulumikizana ndi malingaliro ena ndikowopsa kwambiri m'dziko lomwe chilichonse chomwe munganene chimatha kukhala ndi kachilombo mumasekondi. Chifukwa chake ambiri amatengera malingaliro ophatikizana ngati njira yodzitetezera kuti asachotsedwe mwamantha.
Tikuwona nthawi ndi nthawi ...
Omasuka, podziwa kuti amuna obadwa nawo omwe amapikisana ndi akazi pamasewera ndi opanda chilungamo, khalani chete. Omenyera ufulu wa akazi, pomvetsetsa kuti si amuna onse omwe amagwirira chigololo, amakhala osalankhula. Ma Democrat, osatsimikiza kuti Trump ndi watsankho, agwire malirime awo. Chitsanzo ndi chomveka.
Kukhala chete osatsutsa malingaliro mkati mwa gulu ndizomwe zimapangitsa kuti malingaliro openga abereke.
Ganizilani izi:
Mwamuna yemwe amatsutsa zachikazi amasekedwa, “Zoona anganene zimenezo. Iye ndi mwamuna!” Wa Republican yemwe amatsutsa Democrat amachotsedwa popanda kuganiza, "Zowona anganene. Iye ndi wa Republican! "
Koma pamene imodzi mwazovuta zanu inu - mumasiya - gululo limayima - ndipo aliyense amayamba kuganiza.
Posachedwapa, kukhala chete koteroko kwakhala chizolowezi, kumatilowetsa m'malo oopsa andale. Ndi dziko limene amuna obadwanso mwachibadwa akuphwanya mbiri yamasewera a akazi, ndipo woimira milandu wina akuyamikiridwa chifukwa chopereka lingaliro lakuti makhoti aletse amuna kutsutsa milandu iliyonse. Ichi ndi chowonadi chosadetsa nkhawa chomwe tikukumana nacho.
Zidzatengera munthu wolimba mtima kuti aimirire ndikuti, "Kodi f *** iyi ndi chiyani? Izi ndi zopenga!” Ndipamene zinthu zidzabwerera mwakale. Mpaka nthawi imeneyo, kuchita zinthu monyanyira kudzakula mosayang'aniridwa - ndipo maphunziro olimba a mbiri yakale amatichenjeza kuti njira iyi imatha kupha miyoyo.
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By Richard Ahern - LifeLine Media
Contact: Richard@lifeline.news
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